20 Respects to Love Your Parents

Appreciative Respect
Having a grateful heart for parents by expressing it in both words and actions.
Gift Respect
Giving gifts or favors when visiting parents or other occasions, e.g. presiding meetings
Spatial Respect
Having parents sit at a place of honor, furnishing them with a comfortable seat, securing a comfortable atmosphere for them

Acquiescent Respect
Listening to parents without talking back
Precedential Respect
Allowing parents to have priority in distributing goods and services. Elders first.
Sibling Respect
Getting along with siblings and helping each other. Parents are happy to see their children love each other
Funeral Respect
Mourning and burying elders in a respectful way, building graves at respectful places

Caregiving Respect
Making sure parents are comfortable in every single way. Provide caregiving and services, especially when parents are sick.
Presentational Respect
Etiquettes and manners of dealing with parents. Polite and appropriate decorum. Holding proper manners at home and outside.

Celebrative Respect
Celebrating birthdays or other events in honor of parents

Consultative Respect
Consulting parents in personal and family matters. Seeking for advice
Spiritual Respect
Doing the right thing make parents proud, increasing their own sense of self-esteem and life satisfaction.
Legacy Respect
Forever holding parents in heart by passing family names and values to younger generations

Ancestor Respect
Commemorating ancestors and making sacrifices for them
Victual Respect
Food provision to parents, taking their preferences into account, e.g. their favorite food. Pay for parents in restaurants
Linguistic Respect
Use of honorific language, proper language. Speaking with a kind expression and caring voice
Money Respect
Save parents' money, share their financial burden, support them financially, and protect their retirement savings
Salutatory Respect
Bowing or saluting parents, greeting them, exhibiting proper body language of respect
Time Respect
Spending time with parents, offer companionship and the shared experiences. Multigenerational household. Share lifetime together. Give your parents your time, your attention, your love and your concern about them.
End of Life Respect
Respect parents wishes and will, protect their dignity, be around. Hospice care & Terminal care.